tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5994336640653689680.post2308455911501223650..comments2023-11-15T23:03:26.237-05:00Comments on Adventures With My Enemy Melanoma: Love. Trust. Sacrifice.Chelseahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03983041684417338248noreply@blogger.comBlogger2125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5994336640653689680.post-78262051254895817372011-05-15T22:46:10.561-04:002011-05-15T22:46:10.561-04:00I am going to disagree with you. You stated, "...I am going to disagree with you. You stated, "The whole "Cancer" part of this is hard enough, being 6 hours apart for 3 months will not help our relationship." <br /><br />I disagree.<br /><br />I think this is going to do nothing but strengthen your relationship. I have a lot of faith in Mr. Spots. Granted, I don't know him from Adam, but he's stuck by your side, and he's done nothing but show you love, faith, and loyalty. <br /><br />Love is all about sacrifice. We all have our "things." Some couples only get to spend weekends together because work requires them to travel during the week. I see my husband off to war for 12 months every other year. You're going away for some time to get treatment. We all have our things.<br /><br />You will soon see that these sacrifices aren't always a bad thing. This time apart will MAKE you - not break you. This time apart gives the two of you a chance to really miss each other, and when you miss each other that much, I personally find that you argue less, you talk more, and you love a lot harder.<br /><br />I think every relationship needs that! So don't worry, dear. I have nothing but high hopes and a strong faith in the two of you. And if you need any advice on getting through a "geological separation" - you know I'm pretty much an expert at these! :)Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5994336640653689680.post-72245448908233629382011-05-15T08:45:15.265-04:002011-05-15T08:45:15.265-04:00Congratulations Mr. Spots! 3 months is very long ...Congratulations Mr. Spots! 3 months is very long and daunting, I agree. But, as you mentioned, it is insignificant in the course of a lifetime together. Day by day, moment by moment. The days are long but the years are short. Stay strong!!!Katehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18056293502544777703noreply@blogger.com