People in the spotlight have the
great advantage of making a positive impact on society. They also have the
disadvantage of upsetting a lot of people by comments they make. Today, I
physically cringed while reading an article about Mike Schmidt’s cancer. The Ex-Phillies
great, Mike Schmidt, was diagnosed with stage III melanoma last August. He is
just now beginning to discuss his cancer with the public.
Mr. Schmidt has had numerous
operations, radiation, and chemotherapy. The York Dispatch wrote that he is
going through the third protocol of three different immune system boost
treatments and is about a third of the way through the 12-week process. Obviously,
he’s fighting melanoma with all he has. We all understand that, respect that, and we wish him well.
Here’s why I started cringing:
the article states that the Ex-Phillies great is becoming an unofficial
spokesperson for getting ones skin checked. OK, that’s wonderful. However, when
discussing the new chapter in Mr. Schmidt’s life, he says, “I can think of a
diagnoses that could be a hell of a lot worse. Cancer is a scary thing. Mine’s
skin cancer.”
No joke. I cringed. My shoulders tensed. My jaw dropped.
Let me define stage III melanoma: According to the Skin Cancer Foundation, “At this point, the tumor has either spread to the lymph nodes or to the skin between the primary tumor and the nearby lymph nodes.” This means it has gone through the skin. In my opinion, if this has happened, the cancer can no longer be classified as “skin cancer.” It’s melanoma. Stage III malignant melanoma.
Mr. Schmidt also said, "I have to have scans every three months. Who knows what and when and where something's going to come up. That stuff travels around you microscopically. Until you have a year's worth of scans that show no residue and they tell you you're cancer free, all you can do is treat it."
We all know that he's going to always need to be followed, don't we? Sigh.
Please feel free to read this article yourself. Maybe I’m overly sensitive to it all and overreacting (wouldn’t
be the first time!), but it sounds to me like Mr. Schmidt needs to be educated
a wee bit more on the seriousness of his cancer.
Maybe he wants to downplay the
seriousness of melanoma to the public? Maybe he’s in denial? Or what scares me
the most, what if he just hasn’t been clearly informed? But, he, someone who is
speaking about his battle with cancer to the media, is doing our cancer,
melanoma, not a lick of good. We’re fighting so hard to have melanoma taken
seriously, and to see this article, well, it gave me a clear flashback to the
many times I’ve been told, “at least you don’t have a real cancer.”
I do have a real cancer.
And, Mr. Schmidt, so do you.
5 comments:
I actually want to slap him upside the head and give him one hell of a lecture!
A well worded blog as usual :-)
Holy cow. That's pretty much all I've got. Sounds to me like he is trying to pretend he "just has skin cancer"...maybe makes it less scary? Dude. You have to fight for your life at this point. It's not a joke.
I frequently say that "someone always has it worse"...but that is to be taken very differently then how Mike has presented it.
Oh goodness that is such a shame. It is one thing for us mere mortals to do our bit to raise awareness, to infirm, advise and correct all the squillions of misconceptions out there about Skin Cancer & Melanoma....but for someone in such a position of influence it is not only a wasted opportunity but more importantly a huge frustration that adds further to the battle that we have to face.
Melanoma is like the Mafia"Once you are in there is no getting out" Once diagnosed it can come back months, years, or if you are lucky never. But you are under a life sentence of fear. I too get sick of the media downplaying the true seriousness of this disease.
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You are awesome. I was recently diagnosed with stage 3. Everything you blog about I'm sitting here shaking my head because I can Relate and agree so much. I don't preach and I'm not spreading word like I should but I share pics and quotes. I'm so happy I found your. I didn't know that much on Mike Schmidt and I cringed reading his story on your blog. Anyhow have a great day 😃
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